heLLO blog haha.
new post, new year, new life.
everything changes doesn't it?

and soon i'll be a new person.
a new hot stuff entering pj come year 2008.
I WISH(ed)!!!!!

haha. but nevertheless i'd no longer fancy any stale and emo posts.

afresh...

so. for updates.
i brought 3 types of hari raya cookies for manjeeta, su yin, nicole and the rest. But turns out they didn't come to school. oh what the heck, so i passed the goodies to the rest of the class, and now even the container is missing. heck.

anyhow, i thought asked rani a meaningful question earlier today. whether love was really a two-way relationship. he claimed that such a case is rare, occasionally appearing in some drama-mama korean series or hindi moveis where they roll about in flower fields and sorts.

so i suppose i can say that real love is rare.
the sort of love i see nowadays usually fall under 3 main categories.

for social satisfaction:
meaning a couple only goes into a relationship in deeming themselves satisfactory in the eyes of the society. Otherwise they just seek to be in a relationship just for the sake in being in one. so called being complete, having a partner in their teenage years. many deny it, either unknowingly falling in such a category, or simply in self-denial. usually this sort of love the couple feel is rather subtle, mild, not as deep as the actual nature of love itself.

in modest fulfillment of love:
meaning to just love because someone loves you, even if one may find displeasure in doing so. i suppose these people's resolve are very much admirable. to return love to those who love you. takes quite a bit of courage i reckon. these peeps are usually not so picky and would just deem themselves satisfied after being loved by someone, regardless if the love they return is sincere or otherwise.

for physical presence:
ah.
these people tend to seek satisfaction in a relatisonship, just physically, meaning they just require their partner for physical presence, a form of support. a sort of resting wall, to lean upon in times when they deem their partner uselful. in more vague terms, just for physical company. but generally these people don't aim to pick and dump their partner, they just seek the one thing all humans seek on earth, more than physical presence, and that would be emotional security.


generally, based on experience of myself and mostly on pre-occupying myself in the pleasure of critical analysis and evaluation of other people's relationship, i have reason to believe that the three things people generally seek in an honest relationship would be:

to have someone there to be with you
to have someone who understands you

and most importantly

to know that your partner loves you in return, thus giving you that sort of security.
it's great to know that, somewhere in his/her heart, you know i'ts meant for you.

well, i can't really figure out why all those stuff sort of came out from me.
well, i hope it gives you readers out there a bit of a picture as to where you stand in your relationship. you don't have to abide to what i say, i can just be some other fellar blogging about love.

up to you.

but i know.

i know you know what i mean.

hence i trust you know where you stand.

till then.


bye(raises eye-brow)





zhafri's teaserz : if you dig a hole in the north pole, all the way to the south pole, would you appear head first or leg first?(considering you can get through alive in the earth's core)