hey blog!!!

okay i've been using that ever since i started bloggin.

how do u do blog???

um. nevermind.

anyway, i went shopping with ika, huda and sheila at the town area today. i've always wanted a black havaianas(i think that's the way it spelt) with the strap at the back. but instead i found this slipper thingie still with a strap at tha back, but it's the one from Urbanmale.

i hate going to Urbanmale.
i always feel soo....
shrunken....
because of the assigned salesperson in the shop.

there i saw leah, ci qin.
and surprisingly jamal. the ppp jamal.


boring.....

here comes the juicy part...

well i got my fair share of gossips, first at kfc(bandito and zinger. nice nice haha) then we moved on to long john silvers to resume our session.

that definitely pumped my life juice going, especially after seeing jamal....


anyway, though i have no idea why certain people ask for it, but i'll touch this issue anyway.

the 5 general people you meet in life

1) those who ponder, unmoving.
a common thing amongst teens alike nowadays, from what i can see in singapore anyway. problems and setbacks usually pull these people behind, making it difficult for them to move on. it just so happens that they find difficulty in pulling the remaining pieces of their life, and let go of the past. even if they do move on, little issues that may remind them of their past may still bother them easily. most of such people are the so called emo-kids.
not that i personally have any right to judge them, but it's just the generality of it all.

2) those who move on, never looking back.
well, usually these beings. they..they are quite strong-willed generally. once they move on it's full-steam ahead. no looking back, and what's past is past is their favourite theme in life, so to say. they can are gifted, in that sense, to be able to dismiss setbacks so easily and move on with even better confidence, without even the slightest want to ponder on about the past should there be any tempation for them to do so.
they usually can't even be bothered to look back.

3) those who move on, but walking forwards backwards.
aha. these peeps are interesting. what i mean, by moving forwards backwards, is like, moving forwards but it's your back that's facing front. these people. they move one. fortunately.

but

the twist is that they move on easily, but still they look back vengefully.

ooooh....

in simpler more vague terms, they move on in revenge, holding grudges, holding vengeful fists.
and these people are always careful when moving forwards, in fear of repeating past mistakes.
otherwise, they usually are quite scared in taking a move that may seem similar to a move that led to their downfall previously.

4) those who just seemed to have moved on

well. these people. they are simply bron-actors. gifted. really gifted. certain of these peeps may have tried to forget the past, but it just comes back to haunt them. so they, in simpler terms, puts on this sort of facade, an image, an act, to make it seem as if they have moved on.
000000.

they do get very very defensive when people may say that they haven't yet let go of what's past, claiming so very strongly that they have moved on.

but

if your persistency gets on to them, they would finally break down and let out the truth about themselves. these people are actually quite the sensitive sort once you've reached such a stage of break-down. they usually need someone close all the time to help them regain their strength, their confidence, and pull themselves together.

5) those who simply can't.
hmm.
these peeps are quite the rare sorts nowadays.
simply, it's like.
if they have chosen, they have chosen alright.
it's like they harbour totally everything on whatever it is in the past they had.
once they lose this support, they cant pick themselves up.
its purity in loyalty.
pure loyalty is what these peeps have.
faithfullness too.

well, actually there are lots more categories.
of course there are others who are like, a mix of the different categories, of course depending on the varying sorts of situation you have as well.

its up to you to decide which you are in. there isn't anyone who can give a better say than yourself. true?

well, unfortunately or otherwise there would be people ending up disagreeing with certain things that i may have said here.

but hey.

here's the deal.

you decide your life.




im just another ordinary blogger.

whatever it is you may think, i don't play an authoritative or influential role in it.

but based on the 5 categories above and what has been said, i trust.




i trust





you know where you stand.






till then blog.

~toodles~


zhafri's life quotes : failure is not when you fall. failure is falling, and not picking yourself back up again.